We were talking about dressing.
I told him the previous he doesn't like me wearing shorts. So I rarely wear it.
He asked so what if He doesn't like me wearing shorts. Would I not wear them too. (He was the one who pushes me to wearing more of shorts that it become a staple for me during weekends)

I replied saying I won't. I will reason back and wear them still.
He said I'm not being fair.

That is not true.
It's just because I don't want to lose myself again the second time.